kicking violation and abuseing

every time i play a game i set up or i am good i join a room.  people are like i am waiting for my friend. no one dose a private and they just kick you all the time. its anyoying cant find a good group. i am nm4 geared. its redicously how kicking inconet people in this game has gotten. i have been on vaction i have spent more time on other games then this game because of the way kicking gose. i get kicked when io was awsome but his friend sucked so he kicked me to make room for his other friend. make a private server. it happens to much and it needs to be monotired. if they dont want to make a private server he or she should have no kicking rights.